The Importance of Therapy, with Dr. Lisa Herman

I recently had the extreme pleasure of getting to speak with Dr. Lisa Herman, a licensed clinical psychologist whose company, Synergy eTherapy, helps bring therapy to people via convenient online sessions. We had a great conversation about the importance of therapy, who can benefit from therapy, and how getting help has never been easier due to amazing technological advances in therapeutic care. Check out our conversation below!

Dr. Lisa Herman with Synergy eTherapy

Dr. Lisa Herman with Synergy eTherapy

Dr. Ben Cohen: Good morning, Lisa! Thank you for taking the time to go over the importance of therapy and how you and the other therapists with Synergy are shaping the therapy playing field and helping your patients. Please, tell me a little bit about your background.

Dr. Lisa Herman: It’s so great to speak with you! A little bit about myself—I’m a licensed clinical psychologist with a license in both Minnesota and New York and have worked in several clinical settings, including day treatment, hospital clinics, substance abuse programs, and school programs. I’ve always loved working with teens and families by improving their family bonds and relationships.

BC: That’s great. So, how did you make the shift into eTherapy? It seems so different from the typical approach to a therapy session?

LH: Well, once I moved back to MN from NY, I realized that I could use the advances in technology to increase access to mental health care. A lot of people don’t see their psychologist or therapist solely because it is inconvenient or takes too much time out of their busy day to get away. I figured this would be a great way for someone to get the care they need in a comfortable and relaxed environment.

BC: It is amazing that you’re now able to reach such a vast number of patients and people in need while maintaining one of the most important features: convenience. Tell me a little about therapy and some of the best ways to find the right therapist.

LH: Psychotherapy, or mental health therapy, takes place when a client seeks out a professionally trained, licensed masters or doctorate clinician to help them work through difficulties in their emotional, relational, or physical world. Finding a trusted, empathic, skilled professional can be a process for some people. It’s important to find the best fit for your personality and comfort. A therapist will get to know what you are struggling with at that time and help you learn ways to understand your thoughts, feelings, and help you implement healthier behaviors. Not all therapists are trained in the same therapeutic techniques.

BC: I think that is such an important point you made—the process of finding the right therapist for you. Whenever I talk to someone about chiropractic care, I stress the importance of getting regular chiropractic adjustments. If I’m the right doctor for you, then great! But, if I’m not, that is completely fine as long as you keep shopping and find the one who is right for you. You mentioned that there are different types of therapeutic techniques—which techniques do you implement with your patients?

LH: I focus on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and mindfulness skill building (which includes relaxation and mindful meditation) to help gain clarity, focus, and to calm our minds and bodies. We all have the tools inside of us to improve our life. Sometimes they are hidden and need an objective ‘teacher’ to help bring them out.

Image from Ellen's OCD Blog

Image from Ellen’s OCD Blog

BC: That’s incredible, and goes hand-in-hand with our Mindfulness Block we’ve been focusing on this month with EXCEL90. Are there certain patients who benefit more from the techniques you use? Who is your ideal client?

LH: Therapy is important for anyone who feels their functioning is impaired by a problem, be it from anxiety, depression, or attention issues. Learning what is “outside of the norm” through an assessment and implementing an appropriate treatment plan can improve your quality of life. In terms of age, I work with anyone 6+ with my wisest client being in their 80’s! You are never too young or too old for therapy.

BC: Unfortunately, there seems to be a stigma associated with therapy and that you must be “broken” to seek therapy or psychological counseling. Is this accurate?

LH: Thankfully, the stigma is lifting with more and more celebrities and well-known folk coming out and speaking about their mental health problems, such as PTSD and depression. However, our mental health system was set up to highlight what is impaired in our emotional world or “broken”–so to speak. Think of it, the manual for diagnosing all mental and psychological conditions, the DSM-V (our bible for diagnoses), talks about impairment, deficiency, problems, etc. It really is set up to be negative in connotation. However, we are all on a continuum with our mental health daily! If we are tired, we may be crankier. If we didn’t grow up in an emotionally rich environment, our dynamic inside of relationships may be more distressed. What I stress and want my clients to know is that they are already amazing just as they are…AND there is always room to learn, grow and improve to make the quality of their mental well-being healthier.

BC: Do you think the use of the DSM-V is hurting how we treat our mental health?

LH: Since the DSM-V is based on diagnosing an issue or condition, it gives an instant impression that something must be wrong with the person. In the medical world, you might have diabetes or high cholesterol. In the mental world, you may have depression or ADHD—something impairing your functioning. But, what if you just want to work through something that is annoying but not impairing? It is still diagnosed as “adjustment.” The entire mental health system is set up so doctors can speak with one another about the problem and how to fix it. However, there is a problem in society with being labeled on medical records that causes issues as well.

BC: Speaking about diagnoses and labels, can someone who is “asymptomatic” still benefit from therapy?

LH: For someone who is not in distress or having significant impairment, therapy can be a wonderful place to learn more about YOU. A therapist can help you explore your childhood, parents, family life, relationship style and communication style. There is so much that a trained clinician can “see” that will help someone gain even more insight and improve their overall well-being. The more we know about ourselves, the more we can be mindful of our thoughts and behaviors. This will drive empathy not only towards others, but also towards ourselves. The world could use a little more empathy.

Image courtesy of Yazz's

Image courtesy of Yazz’s

BC: This has been amazing, Lisa. Last, but not least, I’m sure people may be hesitant about seeking therapy due to finances. Are there affordable options as well so people can get the care they need?

LH: Aside from using insurance, which many have large deductibles and co-pays and the private pay option (many private pay companies should have a sliding scale available), there are not-for-profit clinics that are FREE in certain cities. Most college campuses have free counseling centers, and many large non-profit clinics should have financial aid.

Therapy and your mental health is an investment. You don’t need to continue therapy your entire life; many come in and out of therapy several times throughout their life as things come up and cause interference. Gaining an outside trained perspective can be helpful in getting “unstuck” and feeling a bit more in control. Family and friendship supports are amazing, but they may not be enough to help everyone all the time for every issue. Licensed therapists are trained to hear you differently and help you become your best self, whatever that looks like to you.

BC: That is so true! Therapy should always be used when the tools at hand just aren’t enough to solve the problem. Again, thank you so much for taking the time to discuss this important topic with me!

LH: It was my pleasure! Thank you so much for having me to discuss therapy and the importance of mindfulness with our audiences. This was great!

(Interview concluded)


Remember, our mental health affects our physical health and can cause interference in our nervous system. It is important that we focus on correcting all issues in our lives that are causing nerve interference, both physically and mentally. This is why therapy and psychological counseling is an amazing way to take care of yourself along with your regular chiropractic care!


Want to get a hold of Dr. Lisa Herman? Check out her company, Synergy eTherapy, at Although she can only help patients residing in MN or NY, they will be able to help point you in the right direction, regardless of where you are!

Setting Goals That Will Last

“Not setting goals is like flying a plane blindfolded.”

Raise your hand if you’ve been told at some point how important it is to set goals—long term goals with short term goals to help you get there. Exactly…everyone can put their hands down. But, how many of us have written down our goals, looked at them, recited them every day, and base everything we do in our lives on those goals? Not so many hands up. This is another example of us talking the talk without walking the walk. We all know that without goals and the steps to achieve those goals, we’re never going to get where we actually want to be.

A great quote I once heard was, “Not setting goals is like flying a plane blindfolded.” I may know that I want to get from Atlanta to Miami, but if I don’t know the speed, altitude, weight, direction, how much gas is in the tank, etc., then I am never getting to my destination. This happens way too often with our goals as well. We know the end goal we want: double my salary in 5 years, lose that stubborn 10 pounds, run my first marathon or 5K, and the list goes on. But, if we stop there, then there is no chance of ever achieving these goals without sheer luck.

Goals should cover different aspects of your life, be it personal, professional, and so on. Creating these goals should not be the easiest task. If you can list off 30 goals in a minute, they might not be reaching far enough. Goals should be set just outside of your comfort zone.

Take an hour or two to create a meaningful list of 10-15 goals. Now that you have your goals, it’s time to explain how you are going to get there. Many of us have heard about the SMART method to creating goals, and that can be a great place to start. Creating a SMART goal means making it Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Timely. This is an excellent way to start because you are instantly creating goals that are specific to what you want, and not so lofty that they might never be achieved.


However, the one thing that SMART goals fails to create is the emotional connection to your goals. Tony Robbins speaks all the time about creating strong neural pathways between emotion and action, and incorporating them into your goals is an excellent time to start. By linking an emotional response to your goals, such as the benefits and consequences of accomplishing or failing to achieve said goals, you are more inclined to working towards these goals each day.

Just like the article we wrote on using positive affirmations, goals should be read aloud every day so you set your mind in the right direction. If the 10-15 goals you listed and constructed are going to get you to where you want to be, then why do anything else in your day than strive towards accomplishing those goals?


Do you have certain goals you’re trying to attain? Or, amazing strategies you’ve used to accomplish them? Please let us know or comment below so we can all become more efficient at creating the life we want!

Volunteering is Even Better Than we Thought!

“Whatever community organization, whether it’s a women’s organization, or fighting for racial justice … you will get satisfaction out of doing something to give back to the community that you never get in any other way.” — Ruth Bader Ginsburg


We all know that volunteering is good as it provides a needed service that helps someone or something. Whether it’s helping out at a soup kitchen, an animal shelter, or planting trees, volunteering is a way to do good and give back to the community. But, did you know that volunteering is good for the volunteer, too? Many studies have shown a positive correlation between volunteering and good health. So, this is another reason to get involved!

The studies mostly looked at older adults, those middle-aged and older, but found that those who volunteered on a regular basis had better physical and mental health. They were happier, had positive relationships with their families, and were better able to cope with illness. I always feel good after doing something for others, but now there is scientific proof that volunteering is good for your mental health!



Physically, the adults who volunteered more had better cardiovascular health. They had lower blood pressure and even recovered better after a heart attack than those who did not volunteer. Researchers say that this can be due to an increase in physical activity, where volunteering makes older adults get out and move more and improve their mood by helping others.

Unfortunately, the studies did not find these noticeable effects in younger adults, but, hey, it can’t hurt to get in the habit of volunteering when you’re young and reap the benefits later. And, you will be doing good for someone in need! Since mental health affects our physical health, we find it important to take care of the entire body. By incorporating volunteer work into our lives, we can help maintain a completely healthy body, both physically and mentally!




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Keep Calm and Meditate

What is it?

Meditation comes from Buddhism and is, simply, the act of controlling the mind so it can become calm and focused. The goal is to stop thoughts from racing and bring peace to the mind and body. There are many ways to meditate, but probably the most well-known is focused-attention meditation. In focused-attention meditation, the practitioner focuses on a single thought or action. Breathing is one of the most common ways this is done. By focusing solely on one’s breathing, the mind can clear and the body can relax. Another common way to practice focused-attention meditation is by reciting a mantra. A mantra can be a single sound, word, or statement. It is repeated over and over throughout meditation to keep the mind focused.


Why do it?

Many studies have shown health benefits of meditation. It has been shown to increase gray matter in the brain which can improve emotional stability and reduce cognitive decline. Meditation also weakens negative connections between our body and brain. This doesn’t mean we don’t connect things happening to our body with our brains, rather it helps with our reactions to scary or painful stimuli. What actually happens is that we can look at the situation more rationally instead of getting anxious right away. This can, in turn, reduce stress!

Meditating has also been shown to improve memory and focus. The “zoning out” done when meditating causes an ability to ignore distractions when not meditating. This can help us better remember things and focus on tasks.





How to do it?

Settle into a quiet, comfortable place, close your eyes, and breathe. Sounds simple, right? Clearing our minds can actually be very difficult. Try doing just a few minutes a day and work your way up to 10 or 20 minute sessions. At first, your mind will probably wander a lot. Just re-focus on your breathing or your mantra and keep at it!

If you want some extra help, there are some great apps that will guide you through the meditation process. Headspace, Buddhify, and Calm are all great ones!



Our 5 Tips to Use the Power of Positive Affirmations

I know what you’re thinking, “He’s about to ask me to start talking to myself and saying how great I am. Does he REALLY think that’s going to do anything?” The short answer? Absolutely! Aristotle famously said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Greatness then, is not an act, but a habit.” Take a minute to let that sink in. Who we are is determined by what we do repeatedly daily. Do you want to be great? Do great things every day. Do you want to be mediocre? Do mediocre things every day.

We control the power to shape our future. The most amazing truth for all humans is that we can be or do anything we want if we have two things: enough time and enough effort. This is where the power of daily, positive affirmations comes into play.


According to SuccessConsciousness, affirmations are positive statements that describe a desired situation or goal, and are often repeated to get them impressed on the subconscious mind. Their repetition motivates and inspires the person repeating them, and programs his or her mind to act according to the repeated words. This process triggers the subconscious mind to strive and to work on the person’s behalf, to make the positive statement come true.

So, how do positive affirmations help shape our mind and body to get the desired results or goals we’re after? By stating your goals or a positive affirmation out loud, your body instantly molds itself to try and make said statement come true. One of the simplest examples of positive affirmations that we were introduced to at a young age was The Little Engine That Could. Did the little engine repeatedly tell himself, “There’s no way I’m going to get up that hill…there’s no way I’m going to get up that hill…” NO WAY! He kept telling himself “I THINK I CAN! I THINK I CAN! I THINK I CAN!” And, eventually, he got to the top of the hill!

The Little Engine That Could

The Little Engine That Could

We often repeat positive affirmations to ourselves because it strengthens the connection between the mind and body. If every time we say “I’m going to have a great day today!” helps us get closer to that happening, what do you think happens if you say it 10 times in a day? How about 100 times? Eventually, your body will do everything in its effort to have a great day and shield away distractions trying to ruin it.

Unfortunately, the spoken word can work against us as well. If we repeat negative words or thoughts, we have a better chance of those ideas happening, too. Have you ever heard a friend, or maybe even yourself, say, “I have a feeling I’m going to get sick this week,” or, “Ugh…today is just not going to be a good day”? Of course, you have—we all have. And, what usually happens to that person? They end up having a miserable day or eventually getting sick! Our minds are extremely powerful and affect not only our mood, but our body’s chemistry as well.

So, here are our tips!

  1. Make them personal. Your affirmations should be directly related to your behavior and goals and be packed with positive emotion.
  2. Say them in the present tense. If your goal is to lose weight, try saying, “I am helping my body lose weight today,” rather than, “I want to lose 20 pounds.” By saying them in the future tense, your body has less of a desire to start connecting the mind and body today.
  3. Keep them simple. The simpler and easier they are to remember, the better chance you have of saying them every day.
  4. Make sure they’re positive. Affirmations need to focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want. If you want to play well in an upcoming sports match, try saying, “I’m an amazing athlete and help my team win,” rather than, “I don’t want to get injured this game.”
  5. Keep repeating! At the very least, your positive affirmations should be one of the first things you say in the morning. However, they work best when repeated consistently throughout the day. You can read them, write them down, record and listen to them, just make sure they are woven into your entire day.


Do you need help getting started with your positive affirmations? Stop by the office and grab one from our Positive Affirmation Bowl at the front desk! Chiropractic care, and especially the structural care we provide at Excel Chiropractic, focuses on correcting the misalignments in our bodies caused by thoughts, traumas, and toxins. Use these positive affirmations to help increase your mental health and decrease the damage done by negative thoughts.

What is Mindfulness?

“The awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, to the present moment, nonjudgmentally.” – Jon Kabat-Zinn

Mindfulness stems from Buddhist meditation practices, but it is a little different. In meditation, we focus on our breathing as a way of clearing the mind and being free from other thoughts. Mindfulness is about being present in the moment. Focusing on breathing can be a way to do that, but mindfulness isn’t about clearing the mind. Thoughts and feelings that arise are okay, as long as they are met without judgment and we aren’t letting our minds wander too much. Mindfulness can also be practiced walking, where one focuses on the body’s movement, step by step. Or while eating, focusing on the texture and taste of food. The main goal is to focus on and be in the present moment as much as possible.



There are many benefits to practicing mindfulness. In today’s world, a huge benefit of being mindful is to relieve stress. Stress not only causes anxiety, but can cause many physical problems in our bodies, too. Jon Kabat-Zinn created the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program in 1979 and it has become widely used. MBSR has been used to help treat many medical problems from anxiety to gastrointestinal problems.

As we mentioned before, there are many ways to practice mindfulness, but a few key things you need to do are:

  • Set aside some time. You can practice mindfulness anywhere, but make sure you have some uninterrupted time to practice.
  • Observe the present moment. Mindfulness is about being present in the moment and aware of our thoughts, feelings, surroundings, etc. So, allow yourself to be fully in the moment.
  • Let judgments pass. The other part of being mindful is being nonjudgmental. Let any judgments that may arise pass.
  • Return to the present moment. It is very easy for our minds to wander. If you notice your mind wandering during mindfulness practice, calmly bring yourself back to the present moment.